By kraken - 3 Apr 25 5:45 AM
i had the knock about a month ago.
for sexual comms with a child(13) also seems it was a police operation(not that it really matters)
ive been struggling a lot with not having real contact with my son (bail conditions of not unsupervised with under 16 and not to stay overnight in a property where under 16 are sleeping)
my wife(ex) wants a divorce and to change our sons surname for if(more likly when) it gets into any media to try help protect him, ive agreed to this(its just a name but still hard)
the waiting to know what is going to happen is the hardest, some family and a friend know, im lucky to still be in work for now but thats obvisoly going to change eventualy and no idea what to do then(just save for now is the plan)
ive never been so emotional in my life and everything jus seems to go so slow.
i have printed off all the modules from stopitnow and refered to stopso for theopy, the aurara project has now finished and no longer running(only one to get a responce from so far)
im so scared of what is to come in relation to my son, what kind of relationship am i going to have with him once my conviction starts, how are social going to e with the whole situation, its hard as soo many outcomes from everything.
anyway just a quick first post to say hi and a little introduction
kraken
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By RunningMan - 8 Oct 25 10:49 AM
Hey Kraken
I saw GoingGood's response to your situation and reading your story reminded me of my own journey - all the downs as well as a few ups too. I appreciate it is 6 months ago since you originally posted and it looks like you have been an active member on the forum since then, but I was interested to hear how you are getting on and if things have become a bit clearer for you? I am a lot further down the road now than I was - all convictions spent, new name etc - and I posted something on here a couple of years back outlining some of the main things I learned and offering some practical advice to others in a similar position. You can read it here: 3 Top Tips to Survive Being a 'Sex Offender'. Whatever happens (or has happened since your original post), maintaining hope is key. Do whatever it takes to nurture this. We can help with that too - Evan and other Forum Members can offer a lot of practical support and advice. Remember, you will come out the other side and will be all the wiser for it.
RM
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