By kraken - 3 Apr 25 5:45 AM
i had the knock about a month ago.
for sexual comms with a child(13) also seems it was a police operation(not that it really matters)
ive been struggling a lot with not having real contact with my son (bail conditions of not unsupervised with under 16 and not to stay overnight in a property where under 16 are sleeping)
my wife(ex) wants a divorce and to change our sons surname for if(more likly when) it gets into any media to try help protect him, ive agreed to this(its just a name but still hard)
the waiting to know what is going to happen is the hardest, some family and a friend know, im lucky to still be in work for now but thats obvisoly going to change eventualy and no idea what to do then(just save for now is the plan)
ive never been so emotional in my life and everything jus seems to go so slow.
i have printed off all the modules from stopitnow and refered to stopso for theopy, the aurara project has now finished and no longer running(only one to get a responce from so far)
im so scared of what is to come in relation to my son, what kind of relationship am i going to have with him once my conviction starts, how are social going to e with the whole situation, its hard as soo many outcomes from everything.
anyway just a quick first post to say hi and a little introduction
kraken
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By kraken - 19 Jun 26 9:03 PM
ive been away from here for a while as things between me and my ex wife are good, i see my son often.
since my last post, my bail conditions are lifted but im still under investigation while my devices are checked, my laptop has come back clear.
i feel like i made a mistake in getting my ex wife to contact social services as i never had any contact with them, they have closed the case but advise i stick to the same conditions i had on my bail and to contact them once this all comes to an end as things are,
i asked if i still needed to contact them if im released with no further action by the police and they said yes, but anyway....
since the arrest ive no used any chatrooms etc still, im focused on my son and work when im not with him, ive leant a lot about myself also, i really was not in a good place before all this, for many years but thing for now are really good, i do get a little down when i think of what could be at some point.
sorry i ramble on with things
this site and LFF really has helped in the early days and would recommend both.
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