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By kraken - 3 Apr 25 3:22 PM

sorry if in the wrong section i couldn't find where to post.

does anyone have any background dealing with social services after a conviction?
able to share your conviction and what restrictions you where given just so i have an idea what  maybe getting into later in time?

i read the smith case link and going from that i should only get restrictions on my devices been able to be looked at or software installed, but I've also read people with non contact conviction have restrictions put on them with a SOPO/SHPO which looking into i will most likely get.

a lot of things i have also read is that the social tend to go off what the courts decide, unless they dont give you any contact restrictions hen the social seem to, then you have to fight for the contact to your own child.

thank you in advance for any information or knowledge.
By JASB - 10 Sep 25 6:54 PM

kraken - 19 Jul 25 9:57 PM

Hi JASB.
Ive read a lot of comments regarding SS pressuring partners to end any relationship,  also a lot of their ideals are personal to the officer and not the organisation as i have seen in dealings with my son, his mother and my sisters.
They felt it important enough to contact 1 pf my sisters initially about my arrest and forgot about the other, but then told the other that things theor side are closed (im to stick to my bail conditions) but didnt notify the other that they first told about my arrest. 
Just not looking forward to when the police are done with their investigation and things start again with SS

Regards 
Kraken 

Hi
Sorry for my slow reply but life's duties seem to have made the days fly past.

I'm not sure what stage in the process you are at now but I hope your family has stayed strong besides you.

Face those that are aggressive towards you with humility but with self belief. Most are trying to protect themselves from blame; however there are some who simply put, should not be undertaking this role. Unfortunately SO's cannot be classed as being discriminated against.

Keep strong in your mind and self belief that you will not commit an offence again, but aware you have committed an offence.