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Fed up of having to explain myself

Bravelass — Mon, 06 Jul 2020 17:24:15 GMT

Hi everyone

I do come on the forum as I know you all understand and I am so thankful to all of you.
I know I have done wrong and I am regretting every minute of every day in life. I can't change the past and I so wish I could turn the clocks

Possible future step-grandchildren... who do I need to disclose to about SHOPO and register?

DekaRed — Sun, 26 Apr 2020 16:10:44 GMT

I have spent time in prison for sexual offences, and am on the register with a SHOPO. One of the conditions says "not allowed to be around children, unless their parent or guardian is there"

I am currently very friendly with a lady, who is a gran

Differences in approach

newstart — Tue, 14 Jan 2020 09:00:47 GMT

After sentencing, I felt somewhat better in myself, knowing I now had a platform to rebuild and work from.

Had my first meeting with probation and PPU and they were very professional, seeming willing to work with me and setup a management p

Police/ Probation Disclosures

AdamS — Tue, 07 Jan 2020 13:12:52 GMT

I wonder if anyone has experience of a similar situation to that that I am currently in. In 2017 Police investigated me for something that I didn’t do and was not later charged with. However, during that investigation they found 4 Category C indecent imag

Things going well?

Square — Thu, 21 Nov 2019 15:53:55 GMT

Hello,

I have been visiting this site less and less because things in my life have been going pretty well. Good friends, good job (proper profession and well paid) and generally positive. Mental health issues are much better, and I rarely have ni

Coping with being marginalised

Pumpkin — Wed, 29 Mar 2017 23:07:09 GMT

Hey everyone I hope you're all doing well. Unfortunately I've found that after a conviction or some sort of big mistake the people around me have either cut me off from all contact or treated me very unkindly. In some instances, such as work, I found tha

disclosing when you have a SHPO

james gtr manchester — Sat, 04 Feb 2017 18:36:15 GMT

Hi,

Has anyone ever had to disclose a SHPO in a relationship. When do you do it and how??

I'm terrified about forming new relationships as I worry about what impact this would have on a partners life.