﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><channel><title>theForum » Success stories » Employment » Getting a job  » I have my life back</title><generator>InstantForum 2016-2 Final</generator><description>theForum</description><link>https://forum.unlock.org.uk/</link><webMaster>theForum</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 18:55:53 GMT</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title>I have my life back</title><link>https://forum.unlock.org.uk/FindPost12370.aspx</link><description>What a fantastic story BlueAngel - just goes to show you that there are people out there who are prepared to look beyond a one off mistake.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Wishing you much happiness and continued success.&lt;p&gt;&lt;hr size="1" width="50%" align="left" /&gt;Need Unlock's advice? &lt;a href="https://hub.unlock.org.uk" target="_blank"&gt;Visit our self-help information site&lt;/a&gt; or &lt;a href="https://hub.unlock.org.uk/contact" target="_blank"&gt;contact our helpline&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2016 22:58:01 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Deb S</dc:creator></item><item><title>I have my life back</title><link>https://forum.unlock.org.uk/FindPost12369.aspx</link><description>That's a great story. Sometimes the lowest points in life can also be turning points.</description><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2016 22:58:01 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>tellyon</dc:creator></item><item><title>I have my life back</title><link>https://forum.unlock.org.uk/FindPost12368.aspx</link><description>Congratulations Blue Angel!</description><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2016 22:58:01 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>nathan</dc:creator></item><item><title>I have my life back</title><link>https://forum.unlock.org.uk/FindPost12367.aspx</link><description>I was a victim of serious domestic abuse which led to my conviction. I had never done anything wrong in my life, and have never done so since. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I was a highly regarded professional who did something completely out of character due to threats to my life and the lives of my children. I was convicted because I went to the police and told them what I had done. I could not live with it on my conscience.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I told my employers the day that I was charged and also informed my professional governing body. I was allowed to remain in my senior position for a further 16 months until my conviction. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;My then manager flawed my disciplinary and I was dismissed. I was then suspended for a year by my governing body. This could have been worse but they took the mitigation of abuse into consideration.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Following my reinstatement a year later, I applied for three positions. I was honest and up front with each application. I was offered all three jobs. I took the job that was better than the job I was dismissed from and have excelled in my career. My line manager who interviewed me believed in me and saw through the conviction.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In fact, a few weeks ago she turned to me and said that she was so glad she employed me as I have brought a beautiful personality to the department. I cried as the stigma of a conviction can cut so deeply.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Honesty has always been to my credit. That is what got me the three job offers. I have my life back.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I count myself so lucky to have been given the chance  to prove myself again. Hang in there...all is not lost</description><pubDate>Fri, 16 Sep 2011 13:36:37 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>BlueAngel</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>