InstantForum 2016-2 FinaltheForumhttps://forum.unlock.org.uk/theForumSun, 19 Apr 2026 09:22:31 GMT20https://forum.unlock.org.uk/FindPost32111.aspxHi, so I will try to explain everything&nbsp; before&nbsp; asking my question.&nbsp;<br/>Few months&nbsp; ago, my husband who is an alcoholic started&nbsp; getting&nbsp; abusive&nbsp; to me , insulting&nbsp; me and sometimes even&nbsp; being physically abusive.<br/>I was&nbsp; trying to find an excuse for the man that I've&nbsp; been together for 13 years,but honestly&nbsp; things&nbsp; were escalating&nbsp; a lot when he was drinking,&nbsp; is like&nbsp; his whole behaviour&nbsp; changed and sometimes&nbsp; I couldn't&nbsp; even recognise&nbsp; him. So after a lot of arguments,&nbsp; when I was feeling&nbsp; like things&nbsp; were escalating&nbsp; and I couldn't&nbsp; take it anymore&nbsp; I called&nbsp; the police because&nbsp; we are not from the UK and I was scared&nbsp; and worried that something&nbsp; really&nbsp; bad is gonna happen. <br/>That day, unfortunately&nbsp; it was my birthday and I spoke with someone&nbsp; from the police&nbsp; and they asked me if I want them to send someone just to visit&nbsp; us but honestly&nbsp; he was sleeping&nbsp; then and because&nbsp; of his execive&nbsp; drinking having some&nbsp; health problems with his liver,&nbsp; I said that they don't&nbsp; have to do that .<br/>BuT next day we were having&nbsp; an argument&nbsp; again and I was crying and I was really&nbsp; upset and I was sitting&nbsp; on the sofa and he hit me on my leg, AT that moment iw as holding a hand cream and threw&nbsp; that NOT on him but on the sofa, and what he did , called the police and told them that I'm&nbsp; really upset andSat, 08 Jan 2022 17:34:35 GMTKris22https://forum.unlock.org.uk/FindPost32113.aspxSorry I couldn't&nbsp; finish my post ,I accidentally&nbsp; posted this and can't delete it, but my Full post is under the same topic.Sat, 08 Jan 2022 17:34:35 GMTKris22