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SO help please


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By Armantha - 6 Apr 24 2:38 PM

Hi was hoping for some advice please
i have posted before regarding my conviction of sharing a cat c image last year
Though my marriage had already broken down and we was living separately at the time of the offence ,my wife was always supportive and was until I have applied for  divorce.However now I have done so she is using the offence as a weapon  mentioning frequently and what I deem as threats to let it out even posting on social media indirect comments about it.

i am struggling daily with the anxiety of it coming out and worried about the impact on my small children and that  I will lose my Job if this happened .

There is probably not a lot I can do to prevent this ,but I would like to know if anyone has had any experience in preparing for it or how to put it across to an employer if it did 

Thanks in advance
By Armantha - 15 Apr 24 9:43 PM

punter99 - 14 Apr 24 11:39 AM
Armantha - 13 Apr 24 12:39 PM
Hi Quick question,I do not have a shpo order from the cat c none contacts offence .
I was wondering what’s the difference between the restrictions , as far as I can make out it’s only internet monitoring and I’m still subject to everything else ie no contact with under 18 unless adult is aware etc 

If you mean what is the difference between the SOR restrictions and those on an SHPO, then it is mainly internet and computer related stuff in an SHPO, but some SHPO have more intensive rules on contact. The only thing on the SOR is that you have to tell the police if you spend more than 12 hours in a home where a child lives, and that doesn't prevent you going to a home where a child lives, or having unsupervised access to a child, but an SHPO might add more restrictions on where you can go and it might allow supervised contact only.