Hi, so I will try to explain everything before asking my question. Few months ago, my husband who is an alcoholic started getting abusive to me , insulting me and sometimes even being physically abusive. I was trying to find an excuse for the man that I've been together for 13 years,but honestly things were escalating a lot when he was drinking, is like his whole behaviour changed and sometimes I couldn't even recognise him. So after a lot of arguments, when I was feeling like things were escalating( he threw some things on my leg, gettung physical and scaring me) and I couldn't take it anymore I called the police because we are not from the UK and I was scared and worried that something really bad is gonna happen. That day, unfortunately it was my birthday and I spoke with someone from the police and they asked me if I want them to send someone just to visit us but honestly he was sleeping then and because of his execive drinking having some health problems with his liver, I said that they don't have to do that .
BuT next day we were having an argument again and I was crying and I was really upset and I was sitting on the sofa and he hit me on my leg, AT that moment iw as holding a hand cream and threw that NOT on him but on the sofa, and what he did , called the police and told them that I'm really upset and that I threw something at him and he has a bruice on his face( a bruice that he had from few days ago when he was in a bas trying to separate friends from getting into a fight. So the police came, took me into the police station and questioned me, I told them that yes I threw the cream but not to him and without intention to harm him ,only because I got scared at the moment. So , now they are still investigating and my solicitor told me they are looking to maybe give me a caution because even if I didn't hit him throwing a hand cream that you're holding when you're scared can be ana act of violence. I'm a doctor, I don't work as a doctor yet and don't have GMC registration yet.
But I just want to know experience with someone ,possibly a doctor , with caution( I still don't have it at the moment,but maybe I will), getting GMC registration and getting a job as a doctor with caution. I just want to know if with this I'm actually losing my future here and if there is a point for me staying in UK if I'm not gonna be able to work in healthcare ever. Sorry for the long post , and thank you for your answer.
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