+x+x...men who have never married are actually considered a higher risk to children, than those with partners...
This part is also weird. Obviously I'm not doubting you on this at all but isn't it also common knowledge that child abusers are overwhelming someone known to the child such as a parent? So shouldn't that be flipped..?
You would think so, but if someone has an adult partner, then that usually means they are attracted to adults. If they don't have a partner, it could mean they are only attracted to children. Although there could be many other reasons for them being single too.
You know my stance on image offences; that there is always a victim or in the case of A.I., it "could" lead to a victim being created, but I strongly believe that at times there is too heavy a focus on "the act of the offence" and not "why did the offence occur".
I know at times I myself have focused on the "act" in the points I raise but I have, and still do, also focus on the "why".
"Flipped"
Remember the "stats" behind the accusations are supposed to be only from "known" facts i.e. where someone has been arrested, and researched in a certain manner. However if you change the question being asked by the researcher of the data, you could get a completely different output. Especially if you remove the escalating method of using selected "data" that is bias to the agenda of the researcher, who then takes that sample percentage against a larger number, say the population figure of the country.
"Status"
In ways the argument about whether an individual is "married or single" could / should create more questions revolving around my point on "why". Could it be the answer to that question does not provide an answer that those in or wish to be in "authority" are comfortable with i.e. vote winning? For example, can you show me any politically ambitious individual that will voice a fact based negative comment on the NHS staff i.e. they waste money, many are not "healthy" in their personal care or working practices. I say that from my own personal experiences of being cared for and not data, and agree I was cared for by "X" amount who do not fall into this view. However just think how someone could manipulate that comment against me!
Also this point is too convenient for the "agenda" of many of its users. Example what does it mean when a couple do not want / have children? Do we say they "hate" children and so any child in their presence is at danger? Or are they "selfish" because they wish to have the freedom to do what and when they want? The same goes for a non-married human being.
How many offenders know children that they protect AND do not commit offences them? Why is this possible and will that not change the "why" of the risk? Surely the words used by the authorities suggest that every single child is at risk to that offender, or at least until they become 18, then a switch happens in the offender to stop their desire for that individual because they are no longer classed as a child.
As shown in the Parliament debates, MP's do and will promote the stats that someone who is viewing images is statistically more likely to progress to a contact offence. Therefore it must follow a lot of the suppositions mentioned are/will be ignored.
I know some will come and reply with stats arguing the above, but to be honest, we have to remember "stats show what the person wants them to show, as we do not see the data that they are created from!" Also we do not have a voice loud enough to challenge the figures or change those in power perceptions, but that should not stop us trying.
The SOR is not supposed to be a "punishment" but rather a "monitoring" tool. In ways we seem to focus on the individual aspects of it that affects us personally; human nature. But should we not be also be focusing on "why" and the end agenda that is being pushed by those with the means to change it from a "monitoring to an actual punishment" tool, very discretely over time. For instance your home is not supposed to be a prison, but just consider how words and requirements are being changed that in ways, can persuade an ex SO offender, that life is easier just to stay at home.
I once heard the following quote:
A good law is created by a few well intentioned individuals, however its interpretation and so manipulation, is by a greater amount of individuals for their own agenda!
Society suggests I must let go of all my expectations but I disagree, as whilst I have a voice, I have hope.
Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope is for tomorrow else what is left if you remove a mans hope.
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