Hi was hoping for some advice please
i have posted before regarding my conviction of sharing a cat c image last year
Though my marriage had already broken down and we was living separately at the time of the offence ,my wife was always supportive and was until I have applied for  divorce.However now I have done so she is using the offence as a weapon  mentioning frequently and what I deem as threats to let it out even posting on social media indirect comments about it.

i am struggling daily with the anxiety of it coming out and worried about the impact on my small children and that  I will lose my Job if this happened .

There is probably not a lot I can do to prevent this ,but I would like to know if anyone has had any experience in preparing for it or how to put it across to an employer if it did 

Thanks in advance